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So, this seems appropriate here as opposed to /b/ or something. I've had a pretty significant crush on my best friend for a while now, about 5 years. Now, I've been mature about my feelings and even let him know how I felt. We both understand that I respect him more than anything to do anything with him. He's been married for 2 years now and the three of us get along pretty well, always joking that he can have my baby bullshitting. But some of that joking has become more suggestive. His wife has become more insistent that he experiment more sexually. So a few weeks ago, we had a threesome sorta. We took turns giving him handjobs, blowjobs and making out. Then he fucked her while I fingered him. We didn't really talk about it, but things seemed casual as normal. In the last few days he's been hinting that he and I should do more. Should I give in considering that this practically has his wife's blessing? I don't want feelings to get hurt, mine included. What should I do? (Pic unrelated)
Moar pics of that guy!
Lucky you, really for it to have gotten there already. Count yer blessings, don't forget it happened and go for it.
-Ms. an landers
OP here. Few more details. I am a photographer and this whole situation was triggered when I asked my friend to pose for some portrait/physique shots (No, I'm not uploading them). Anyway, the real reason I hesitate is because his marriage is a little shaky right now. I really don't want to feel all Julia Roberts in My Best Friend's Wedding guilt. You know? (Pic unrelated)
How old are you guys?
OP here. I'm 28 and he's 25. I try and listen to his marital problems and I'm always sympathetic and try and give some sound advise. But there's always this little voice in my head going YES! (I think its my dick?) Bu I don't want to be a home wrecker.
>>10i wouldn't do anything if you think his wife is going to get pissed off. if he's really a friend and not just someone you want to do, then you don't want to be involved in any way in his marriage falling apart. If his wife says ok to whatever, then fine.
OP here. Last night the three of us fell asleep in a big dog pile on the bed. In the middle of the night, my friend grabbed my hip and spooned us up close and started grinding his ass into my crotch. So fucking hot. I reahed around and he was full hard. I fisted his cock for a little while but he doesn't come. Things slow down and we fall back asleep. His wife never wakes up, but if she did I think it'd be okay. She keeps saying jokingly that it isn't cheating if he's the bottom. My life has become a cheap porno. Wtf. The next morning, we dont talk about it and I give him a ride to work. All is well with the world?
All I can say is you're a lucky bitch. :\ I had a guy who dated girls, but attached himself to me for a year then told me he was just confused and is now dating girls again. He acts like nothing ever happened.
If things keep going the way they're going, sounds like you've got yourself someone that doesn't want to date a guy but just likes sex. I wouldn't expect anything more out of that relationship. If you're cool with that then be happy. If you want more, you should probably look elsewhere.
OP here. Things have seeemed to slow down, I think the guilt has started to set in. But we're still casual. I've been trying to find some sexual outlet with another gay guy but its been tough. I don't think that any of my friends realize how suicidal I can be at times. And this whole thing is so much unnecessary drama that I can't talk to anybody about. Fuck.
OP here. Well, it seems the other foot has dropped. Like I said, their marriage has been on the rocks. Seems it's reached the breaking point. She's dredging up a lot of old drama and fights that were resolved months ago and of course guess what else she's brought up? She's accusing him of being a closet case and that he essentially cheated on her with me. This is such bullshit. I know he's straight and was just curious (I'm not deluded) and the whole thing happened at her insistence. I don't want to get dragged into their fights, but I want to defend myself and my friend. Should I leave well enough alone as she isn't blaming me? She hasn't confronted me at all. This is all coming from my friend telling me this.
The only advce i can think of is that you tell your friend that you are there for him if you need to but you think that for the next few days until things calm down that you should spend time apart so as not to increase the drama.
dont think of it as owning to guilt or leaving him dry, try and think of it as not making the problem any worse
What a beautiful dong! T wanna suck it ...